My wife and I are planning on celebrating our 30th at CSS next Jan. The last night there (before we go to CN for a week) I would like to surprise her with a dinner in the wedding gazebo. I wonder, though, should I keep it a surprise or let her be part of the planning and anticipation which is all part of the joy of going to Couples? She could also pick out her menu if I tell her in advance. So, for those of you who were surprised (or any of you with thoughts on the matter), did you like being surprised or would you have rather been told ahead of time? I do plan on giving her a gift of some sort at the dinner, working out some kind of surprise with the staff once we get there. Thanks.