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    My wife and I are planning on going to CSS for the first time next summer. We plan to spend a good amount of our time at SSB and she wants to go topless at the main beach too. (Is just a G string allowed?) She also wants to step out of her normal comfort zone and be adventurous at dinner. We understand that she may be the only one dressed like this and aren't worried about what other people will say or think but don't want to be asked to leave the restaurant or be disrespectful. I have looked at several of the boards and there seem to be some mixed messages or the posts are so old that I am not sure if they are still relevant. I have linked several dresses that we think would be fun (the first three she already bought). Please let me know if these would be crossing the line. (they would be worn without bra/underwear.) Don't mean to offend with the post either. Just want to get an idea of what is ok? Thanks for your patience/advice for a newby!

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    2 http://www.cheap-lingerie.com/images...h2XYkhaAtZ.jpg
    3 http://www.cheap-lingerie.com/images...albLeHqMz8.jpg
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    6 http://assets.yandycdn.com/Products/...ont_FH2015.jpg

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    While most don't wear that revealing of dinner dresses...the only one that would/may cross the line would be #4

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    In looking at your 6 items, I think 3 and 4 might be considered too risqué depending on how well 3 covers her. I cannot really tell on items 5 and 6 how sheer they really are. Based upon our trips, she will likely be in the minority (close to the only one) dressed this way at dinner. I can say that we have seen some items that were similar to item 1 and item 2.
    Last edited by kurt and Angie; November 2nd, 2016 at 12:26 PM. Reason: clarification

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    She should wear whatever she wants. Contrary to what some of the "fashion police" will likely say - which is a whole other issue - this is your vacation, and if she's comfortable with it, why not? If someone feels "disrespected" by your wife's clothes, that's their problem, not yours, and she will definitely not be asked to leave any of the restaurants. We've definitely seen these style of outfits at CN before. The only one that may be a little over the edge is #4 in that it appears to be completely see-through. Enjoy!
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    If management doesn't care...neither do I. I'm sure there is a "line" somewhere but it's not up to me to define it.
    Last edited by Gatekeeper; November 1st, 2016 at 04:54 PM.

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    Well Couples is a very romantic resort so what a great opportunity to dress sexy whilst being in this beautiful environment with your loved one and a good place to come out of your comfort zone. Personally if you feel confident and good then go for it. There were a few sexy dresses at CN but majority not so, but hey you will just stand out and why not....it's not hurting anyone, as for the underwear surely its too hot to wear it?

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    I think all would be fine, honestly. #4, though, would require some undergarments IMO, maybe just solid black.

    Just got back from CN and I will say I didn't see anyone dressed up this much at dinner. I only say maybe one woman in high heels and while she looked nice, the shoes seemed out of place at a beach resort to me, probably because I prefer to be barefoot as much as I can. But, I say wear what you want!

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    love, love number 5 and 6! wish i had the body to wear something like that; however, i don't think my hubby would be able to get up! he'd have to stay seated all evening...haha

    CSA 2009, 2014 [20th anniversary]
    CSS 2010
    CN 2011
    CTI 2017 [50th birthday & 23rd anniversary], 2019 [25th anniversary]

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    Wow!!! I LOVE all the dresses!! Great taste! And # 4 may be good at night around the bars...
    My husband and I have been to CSS several times and I have always pushed the limits with the sexiness of my clothes... and have received good comments.. from staff and guests. I think the staff like seeing someone take advantage of the beautiful resort. Last time we were there my favourite comment from a guest was " I can't wait every evening to see what you will wear"... and his wife also had a big smile on her face.
    You aren't being disrespectful... simply taking advantage of an adults only, couples resort to feel like a movie star. ENJOY

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    We faced the same question a while back concerning evening dress and swim suits, or more precisely bikinis. My wife works very hard on keeping herself in shape and looks great in a tight, short dress. As the years have gone by we have become somewhat more 'adventerous' in her dress selections for our trips to CSA. She has several dresses from a the Hot Miami Styles site and looks way hot in them if I do say so myself. Several of them are short, low cut and all cling to her figure like a second skin. She has only received complements on her dresses when wearing them at Couples. I would agree with the above comment, if your wife is comfortable with the dresses then she should wear them proudly. Though I also agree that the sheer dresses may attract a bit more attention than either of you were anticipating. We also tend to save some of the more "club" style dresses for evening entertainment like dancing at the Aura lounge where they tend to fit the mood a bit better. At our age we are of the opinion that she deserves to flaunt it while she's still got it. There will come a day when she will not feel comfortable in the dresses she wears now. Oh, and the dresses she wears on vacation she will rarely if ever wear at home when going out.


    This is a sample of a dress she will take on our next trip!
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    Last edited by dirtleg; November 3rd, 2016 at 08:23 AM.
    See you at the beach!
    dirtleg & sandyfoot

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    Thank you for posting this! My husband and I are booked for Jan 2017. I, like your wife, plan to step outside of my comfort zone. This post has helped me to define what I can/can not wear. This will be our 30th anniversary and we are celebrating us!
    Jessie and Mary
    Florence, AL USA

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    She will be fine, you are on vacation. My wife has worn similar dresses at CTI and if I'm lucky she will again this year. The important thing is that the two of you enjoy yourselves.

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    I really like #5 and #6. I too wear cleavage revealing dresses that I feel comfortable in. I say "take clothes on vacation that you wouldn't wear around your children" and have fun feeling sexy with the one you love.
    Enjoy your trip !

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    Thanks all for your input! I can see why people talk about what a great community this is. It sounds like we can get away with all of these except 4 (which probably wasn't that likely anyway). Hadn't really thought about saving some for the bar area, that seems like a good idea. I really appreciate all the advice and info.

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    Sorry but those look appropriate for the bedroom, not out in public.

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    Our opinion is that it is your vacation and you chose an adults-only resort. My wife would have no problem wearing any on that list. With 4 kids and buttoned-up career, she looks forward to letting loose for a week. We'll see if she's in the minority next week at CTI or finds herself surrounded by other body-confident women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by playfullvrs View Post
    Our opinion is that it is your vacation and you chose an adults-only resort. My wife would have no problem wearing any on that list. With 4 kids and buttoned-up career, she looks forward to letting loose for a week. We'll see if she's in the minority next week at CTI or finds herself surrounded by other body-confident women.
    I think she will be very much in the minority. True it is adults only but more in a romantic way than "let it all show" way. Personally, I have no problem with the dresses but they are not the norm at Couples resorts

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    Quote Originally Posted by playfullvrs View Post
    Our opinion is that it is your vacation and you chose an adults-only resort. My wife would have no problem wearing any on that list. With 4 kids and buttoned-up career, she looks forward to letting loose for a week. We'll see if she's in the minority next week at CTI or finds herself surrounded by other body-confident women.
    Couldn't have said it better myself. There is a reason why we are going to CTI not Disneyland.

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    Confidence is knowing you can look sexy and alluring with leaving a little to the imagination.

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    Quote Originally Posted by luvbeaches View Post
    Confidence is knowing you can look sexy and alluring with leaving a little to the imagination.
    Confidence is also knowing that you have worked hard and maintained your body and can rock an outfit. I have not done that in my life and none of those outfits would be appropriate for me, LOL, but kudos to the ladies that can! If you got it and want to flaunt it, go right ahead!
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    I'll never understand why there are those that care about what others are wearing. This is Couples, the focus should be on your partner, not what the lady or gentleman sitting three tables over decides to wear for dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JEANNEW View Post
    Confidence is also knowing that you have worked hard and maintained your body and can rock an outfit. I have not done that in my life and none of those outfits would be appropriate for me, LOL, but kudos to the ladies that can! If you got it and want to flaunt it, go right ahead!
    Jeannew, you certainly rock it! Hope to see you next year!

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    We have been married 37 years and my wife dresses in super sexy dresses and heels every night at CN. it is our time together in an adult atmosphere when we can focus on each other. Our intent is not to offend anyone but since we are all adults please let each couple bask in the romantic atmosphere which couples resorts creates. If you want to wear dresses like those , go for it! It's what matters to you that makes the experience so exhilarating!

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    Quote Originally Posted by luvbeaches View Post
    Confidence is knowing you can look sexy and alluring with leaving a little to the imagination.
    Imagine a 60+ year old, retired school teacher that works hard to keep her body in great shape. That's her up there in that photo above. She will dress the way she likes on vacation at Couples. So far she has received no complaints from other guests, staff or management at CSA. Oh, and if you think she looks good in a dress you should see her in a bikini...
    See you at the beach!
    dirtleg & sandyfoot

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    Quote Originally Posted by Piperman View Post
    Jeannew, you certainly rock it! Hope to see you next year!
    Thanks Piperman! It was great to see you and the gang!!! We are currently trying to rearrange our "busy" schedule (LOL) to be there at the same time next year!
    Gene and Jeanne
    CSS October 2012, 2013, 2014, 2016, 2017
    CSS/CTI October 2018

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