Is anyone having anything when they get back home? In my case, both sets of parents feel we should have something when we get back to include all the family and friends that couldn't attend our wedding in Jamaica. We are struggling with what to have. My fiancé and I wanted an "Open House" style BBQ where people can come in and out, but our parents are REALLY pushing for a reception w/ sit down dinners and all that jazz. I thought the point of Destination Wedding was to save money and get away.

Sooooo, my question to all the brides out there is: what are you doing when you get back home? Are you having any sort of gathering, party, full reception and if so, can you share your ideas b/c we are really struggling. Thanks everyone and good luck!