We are celebrating our 30th anniversary and decided to do something different this year. We have taken many cruises and sometimes never leave the ship at ports of call. We found Couples on the web and decided to try SS. I have a couple of questions about the romantic extras available. When should you book for the private dinner and the couple massage? Can you do this prior to arriving or when you get there? Also I would appreciate any other special things that we might consider when we are there. We arrive Friday April 20 for seven days. We booked the ocean view deluxe verandah. What block will we be in? Can we find out what room we are in before arriving? Thanks for the help. Can't wait to leave the rainy northwest!!