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    We will be there in a little over a month. And I can't really hide my excitement. I have a question. Is it weird that I am excited for her to be naked in public or on a beach? I guess I have always been a closet exhibitionist. But she's seems to really start coming out of her shell. We have been married 20 years and went to haulover once when we lived in South Florida. I really find it a turn on. I know it's not hedo. I don't plan on doing anything overt. Just flirty respectful stuff. We have had great conversations about it and it has really enhanced our times together thinking about it. Is it weird? Please don't judge. Lol

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    Yup you're weird...and you'll be joined by a whole bunch of other weird, happy, friendly people when you get there!!

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    I agree with Gatekeeper 100%. You will never meet a more friendly, eclectic and outgoing group....of and did I mention weird??....or naked??? Enjoy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jtom6374 View Post
    Is it weird that I am excited for her to be naked in public or on a beach?
    Nope, I feel the same way. There's something... naughty about seeing her walking around nude all day. She feels the same about seeing me. In the same exact boat, and leads to much fun during beach breaks.

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    Life is short....party naked!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frostbitten View Post
    Life is short....party naked!!
    You seem to be showing signs of SSB withdrawal Buddy.

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    Love the party naked motto. Since we booked this trip my wife has become way more adventurous. We are going the week of July 2. Would love to find a couple to maybe go to dinner with and hang on the beach and get drinks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gatekeeper View Post
    You seem to be showing signs of SSB withdrawal Buddy.
    Worst thing about that is the cure only makes it worse next time!

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    Missing our SSB friends, Gatekeeper. Booking for early January for 12 nights!!!

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    July 3 Can't get here fast enough.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frostbitten View Post
    Missing our SSB friends, Gatekeeper. Booking for early January for 12 nights!!!
    Darn...maybe...we are really travelling a lot in the next 12 months, Mrs.Keeper may not allow this. Me, a computer and a Visa card are an expensive combination what it comes to booking travel!

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    So this seems like a good group to ask this - my husband and I finally got another couple from home to join us for a trip to CSS. Don't think they've ever tried a nude beach. We enjoy SSB and textile beach, and pretty much split our time between them. We do think it would be fun to invite our friends to try SSB, even though it might be kinda weird, lotta fun. Any thoughts on how to approach them on the subject?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TXLynn View Post
    So this seems like a good group to ask this - my husband and I finally got another couple from home to join us for a trip to CSS. Don't think they've ever tried a nude beach. We enjoy SSB and textile beach, and pretty much split our time between them. We do think it would be fun to invite our friends to try SSB, even though it might be kinda weird, lotta fun. Any thoughts on how to approach them on the subject?
    Tell them about your previous trips to CSS. Tell them about the resort and that there is a nude beach area. Most likely they will ask you if you have ever gone to the nude beach...tell them you have and loved it. Tell them about your experiences and how free and liberating it is and how great the people are that you met. Good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by TXLynn View Post
    So this seems like a good group to ask this - my husband and I finally got another couple from home to join us for a trip to CSS. Don't think they've ever tried a nude beach. We enjoy SSB and textile beach, and pretty much split our time between them. We do think it would be fun to invite our friends to try SSB, even though it might be kinda weird, lotta fun. Any thoughts on how to approach them on the subject?
    I had a co worker who recently went at a different time than us - I mentioned ssb, the beautiful sunset and how at sunset it became "clothing optional" - it started the conversation and it was clear they had zero interest so I didn't even mention that we go.

    I think you could start there and see where it takes you - it will either spur interest or be shut down quickly.

    The other option is to wait until you're there and had a few drinks and when the AN beach comes up you shyly "admit" that you might have "spent a few hours there after some drinks" and see where that conversation goes.

    I have a friend who went to Negril and he just straight up asked if we go as I could tell it was a highlight of their trip so you never know.

    No matter how you approach it - I think you'll know pretty quickly if there's even a chance.

    I'm curious - If they don't want to go to ssb - would you still split your time and tell them you're going to ssb? Or would you live on the textile side the whole trip and sneak over to ssb?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MichaelAndKristin View Post
    I had a co worker who recently went at a different time than us - I mentioned ssb, the beautiful sunset and how at sunset it became "clothing optional" - it started the conversation and it was clear they had zero interest so I didn't even mention that we go.

    I think you could start there and see where it takes you - it will either spur interest or be shut down quickly.

    The other option is to wait until you're there and had a few drinks and when the AN beach comes up you shyly "admit" that you might have "spent a few hours there after some drinks" and see where that conversation goes.

    I have a friend who went to Negril and he just straight up asked if we go as I could tell it was a highlight of their trip so you never know.

    No matter how you approach it - I think you'll know pretty quickly if there's even a chance.

    I'm curious - If they don't want to go to ssb - would you still split your time and tell them you're going to ssb? Or would you live on the textile side the whole trip and sneak over to ssb?
    Think I'll just be on record as open-minded about it. What we love most about Couples is not planning the heck out of our vacation and primary goal is to let relaxation happen. If sunset beach works for the mood of the moment, then so it will be. We want our friends to be relaxed also and last thing we want is to add any tension. That said, I'm sure my husband and I will find our way to SSB for at least a while.

    My husband and I decided to try "naked beach" on one of our trips as a bucket list thing. Turned out we had a great time! Maybe our friends will take it as an experience so they can say they did it. But if not, no pressure. However things work out, can't wait to go home, enjoy friends old and new, swimsuits or not.
    Bottom line, I just still haven't decided how to discuss with friends - it will come to me.

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    Have you considered that maybe they also want to try the beach, and are struggling with how to bring it up? Have a couple drinks, very early on in the vacation (or sooner), and bring it up. Mention that you are interested in trying it, or mention that you already have (might be a little more pressure then).

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    [QUOTE=TXLynn;287793]Think I'll just be on record as open-minded about it. What we love most about Couples is not planning the heck out of our vacation and primary goal is to let relaxation happen. If sunset beach works for the mood of the moment, then so it will be. We want our friends to be relaxed also and last thing we want is to add any tension. That said, I'm sure my husband and I will find our way to SSB for at least a while.

    Been there, done this, and in my profession I work as a psychologist so I have some insight on this. I suggest you say, "Hey, one of the things we usually do at CCS is sunset beach, which you probably know is nude. [fill in story of how you got interested in this]. If you want to go with us, we're okay with that or if you think that's awkward and you'd prefer to go on your own, we can coordinate that. Just let us know." The more you make this no big deal the better off you'll be and believe me, once you've done it, it's not big deal. My wife is about the least "let's go nude" person you'll meet and she was out there every day we were there. The only thing I said to her was, "This is vacation. You need to loosen up." And she's ready to go back. We're booked for May.

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    Great advice Midwest2Jamaica! We had our first experience at SSB while at CSS in September. We too are booked again for May 2018. Doing 8 days at CSS/SSB then 3 days at CN to revisit there since we did our 20 year vow renewal at CN in June 2017 (2 trips to couples in 2017....what a year and yep we are hooked!).

    Your advice above is perfectly stated. When we got back from our trip to CSS my sister in law and her fiancé approached my wife and I about Jamaica. They said you 2 sure love it there, we wanna know what the deal is lol. So, we told them about CN and about CSS (left out SSB part). My wife and I agreed that our new found love of AN adventures was going to be our secret but we did tell them that when we are on vacation in Jamaica we tend to cut loose a little, go with the flow and live a little. They said that's great and it sounds fun! They then immediately shared a secret of their last vacation in confidence with us, so we felt safe that we were both exchanging information that each would hold in confidence (we trusted them now lol). Long story short....we approached the SSB thing much in the same way you recommended above. We could tell they were a little surprised (not sure what they were expecting to hear lol), so we said, any questions, let us know, not really a big deal (and it really isn't). They ended up booking 7 days that will overlap our 8 days. We figure if they decide to give it a go when they get there, we can try to coordinate if they want, but we also told them we are not going to NOT go all week just cause they might go. We told them is a large part of our relaxation and our vacation, so if they wanna go let us know, but we WILL be spending pretty much all day every day over there and put the vibe out that it was really not a big deal to us. I am not sure why I am sharing all this, but why the hell not, we are all friends and kindred spirits here aren't we? I hope they don't make May awkward lol. Time will tell. We will have a great time regardless. I truly hope they can as well.

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    after we got back from CSS and SSB we went and told everyone that would listen lol. people asked what we did so we just told them. coming up in 2018 we will be going back and as it turns out my brother and his fiance will also be going during the same time frame. told them the same thing you did Jnobles, we will be spending our time on SSB. if thats an issue lets clear it up now because thats where we will be. we personally dont care if they come or if they dont it was more of a matter of how they felt. turns out they also dont care (at least they say so for now) but they have also never done AN so we will see when the time comes. either way come july you all know where i will be

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